Part 16 - Epaphroditus Php.2:25-30

25 But I think it is  necessary to send back to you Epaphroditus, my brother, fellow worker and fellow soldier, who is also your messenger, and caretaker of my needs. 26 For he longs for all of you and is distressed because you heard he was ill. 27 Indeed he was ill, and almost died. But God had mercy on him, and not on him only but also on me, to spare me sorrow upon sorrow. 28 Therefore I am all the more eager to send him, so that when you see him again you may be glad and I may have less anxiety. 29 Welcome him in the Lord with great joy, and honor men like him, 30 because he almost died for the work of Christ, risking his life to make up for the help you could not give me.
5 titles – 2 from their perspective, and 3 from Paul’s.
your messanger  apostle (aggeloj = one sent with a message, apostoloj = one sent on a mission/commission.)
What was the mission?
caretaker of my needs referred civil servants or benefactors, as well as to those who rendered priestly, religious service (LXX).  Given all the sacrificial language connected with the Philippians’ gift, I think it is  the latter.
leitourgo.j A word used to describe the activity of priests offering sacrifices in the OT.  It means religious service.  It carried the idea of offering a gift in a worship context.
The Philippian Church sent E to go help Paul, and that help was a sacrifice offered to God.  
This was no small task.  Think of an 800 mile journey on foot, in a hostile, persecuting environment.  I don’t know what the longest trip you have ever been on, but if you are like me, you can’t even relate to traveling for a month or two before arriving at your first destination.  
So that’s who E was from their perspective.  From Paul’s he was:
brother  highlights the close personal friendship.  It lifts E right up to Paul’s level.  Paul always refers to his subordinates as peers.
fellow worker  emphasis on labor.  E had come to Rome and worked hard.  He wasn’t lazy or inefficient – he worked hard at Paul’s side.
fellow soldier Going to help Paul meant taking on all Paul’s enemies.
Paul was in prison facing capitol charges.  He was at the mercy of a maniac named Nero and his ruthless government.
If they took a personal dislike to you, they could be brutal.  Remember Pilate: “I find nothing wrong with this man - just scourge him”  The defendant is totally innocent, so just give him 39 lashes and be done with it.
The Romans were brutal even when they were being nice.
Paul had Nero for an enemy, Rome for an enemy, the Jewish leaders for enemies, the people who crucified Jesus as enemies, the Judaisers as enemies, many within the church – not to mention Satan and all the powers and thrones and authorities under his control in the heavenly realms.  
And from the human perspective, it appeared as though Paul was losing in a very lopsided fight.  
And yet E didn’t hesitate to come right along Paul’s side on the front line – and expose himself to all the vicious attacks of Paul’s enemies and Christ’s enemies.
Reason For Sending
25 But I think it is  necessary to send back to you Epaphroditus 
 
Why? He just got done making him out to be the most valuable man imaginable, and now he’s sending him back?

26 For he longs for all of you and is distressed because you, 
28 Therefore I am all the more eager to send him, (I’m sending him sooner than I would have) so that when you see him again you may be glad and I may have less anxiety. 
longs and distressed  are both very strong terms.  
The first word refers to an intense craving

the second to a confused, restless distraction.  It is the word used of Jesus in the Garden.   Mt.26:38  (ass. W/ some trauma)  

because you heard he was ill

Is this a little strange that E would have to go all the way back just because the Philippians were sad about his illness?  Not really.
Keep in mind they had no phones.  News only traveled by personal messenger.  The Philippians knew he got sick, but didn’t know he recovered.
If we reconstruct the events from what we know, it seems that evidently E became sick early on – maybe even on the way to Rome or shortly after arriving.  
When traveling with a large sum of money, there is no way they would send anyone on just a journey alone.  Certainly there were others that accompanied him.  As soon as he become so ill, either one of the traveling companions or some traveler headed in the other direction took the news back.
Later, E made a surprising recovery (in those days, not many people came close to death’s door and recovered).  So E goes on with working with Paul in Rome – we don’t know how long – but the whole time he thinks of his dear friends in Philippi, thinking he is deathly ill, crying out to God to heal him…and the whole time E is just fine!
And whenever E thinks about that, it bothers him (lit: He kept longing for you and kept being in distress).  He loves those people, and he doesn’t want them to be in anguish. 
I also think there is a good chance that there was more to this than just their being worried about his condition.  
The only explanation for why Paul devotes so much of this letter to talking about church unity and humility is that he had some knowledge of some relationship tensions that existed in the church (and we see evidence of that later).
Something was stirring up problems among the Philippians, and I think it is  very possible that part of it was agitation over the situation with E. 
This whole passage begins with Paul saying 25 But I think it is  necessary to send back to you Epaphroditus 
That same word necessary was used in ch.1 of that which was in the Philippians’ best interests spiritually (1:24) – perhaps it was in their best interests for E to come, because they were having spiritual, relational problems partly over the anxiety over E.
Maybe they didn’t all fully agree that he should be sent.  And now, all they know is that he was deathly ill, and now is probably dead.  You can imagine how that could cause some friction in the church.  (You can imagine how you would feel if the church made a decision you didn’t agree with, and then it turned out to be disastrous – just like you warned everyone.)
This is all conjecture, but I think it helps explain why E was so distressed, and he so wanted to come back to Philippi.  If Tim had anxiety and worry for them, and Paul did, you can imagine how E felt since that was his home church – family and friends – especially considering that some of the problems may have been due to him.
God’s Mercy
27 Indeed he was ill, and almost died.   But God had mercy on him,
It was merciful for God to spare his life.  How can that be if he would have gone to heaven?  This life is a gift from God.  Even though it involves pain, it is  good.
Ch.1 – Paul longed to depart and be with Christ, yet for now he would rather remain on earth, so he could carry on with his calling.  As much as Paul wanted to go to heaven, he wanted even more to complete his earthly mission first.  
He understood that your impact on eternity is determined during the brief moments you are on this earth.  
1 Co.9:25  Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will not last; but we do it to get a crown that will last forever.
1 Tim 4:8  For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come.
And so it is  God’s mercy that allows us to continue on in this life.
and not on him only but also on me, to spare me sorrow upon sorrow.
We would do well to think of our lives, and the lives of those we love, and health, as merciful gifts from God.  So often we expect life and health – as if God owes it to us.
You hear of people who say, “I prayed and prayed for God to spare my loved one, and He didn’t.  So now I’m mad at Him.”
We get so we expect mercy.  We demand it.  And if He doesn’t supply it, we think He owes us something (ER doctor – “God owes us one”).
We always think that the normal state of affairs should be health and safety.  When suffering comes, we are shocked and we panic until relief, then we think things are back to normal “It is about time.”  
But we should expect suffering (1 Pe.4:12), and when it is n’t present – that’s something extra to praise God for.
sorrow upon sorrow - wave after wave of grief.  You would only grieve like that for someone very close.
Honor Men Like Him
29 honor men like him, 30 because he almost died for the work 
We ought not gloss over this command to honor men like E.  The type of person we honor says a lot about what we regard as important.  The world honors the wrong people.  They are way off in the people they make into heroes.  
Instead of men of integrity, honor, courage, etc. our culture clamors around celebrities – many of whom are devoid of character.  We have as our heroes almost exclusively athletes and performers – many of whom are actually criminals!  Yet they are idolized and emulated. 
You would think for the Church honoring truly honorable men and women would be the most natural thing in the world, but, unfortunately, very often they go without much honor.  Missionaries give their lives in difficult labor in difficult places, and we reward them by making them come back every few years to raise money.  And when it comes time to retire, they are on their own.
Sadly, people in the church have often done the same thing as the world.  We honor the opinion of Christian pop singers over theologians and scholars.  We clamor around the talented and the beautiful, make celebrities out of those who can entertain us.  
Meanwhile those who are right now all around the world risking or even losing their lives in the service of Christ are mostly unknown and unnoticed.  
You wonder, if our children put posters of those people on their walls instead of some unbeliever who can run fast or throw a ball – what kind of impact that might have on the direction of their lives.
1 Ti.3 starts out saying, “If anyone aspires to be a pastor, he aspires to a noble task.”  This is one of the reasons why we are so committed to high standards for leadership in the church – so that the children can grow up and see the character of those remarkable men and aspire to someday be a pastor or deacon.    
If we want our children to aspire to true greatness, it will never happen until we honor those men that are like E.
Suffering For Christ
29 Welcome him in the Lord with great joy, and honor men like him, 30 because he almost died for the work of Christ, lit He approached to the point of death for the sake of the work of Christ.
The phrase to the point of death – in all of Paul’s writing in all his books, he uses this phrase only one other time – and it is in this same chapter.
v8   being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself and became obedient to the point of death- 
Paul was pointing out the Epaphroditus had the same attitude as Christ Himself – humbling himself even to the point of death – the ultimate act of humility.
What disease do you get from serving God?  Some germs came into his body.  So how can Paul say that it was for the work of Christ?  How does he know those same germs wouldn’t have come into him had he been doing something else?
Any difficulty you endure while serving Christ is considered by God to be a difficulty you endure for Christ.  
Sometimes we think the only way to suffer for Christ’s sake is to have someone say, “Renounce Christ or I’ll torture you.”
But it doesn’t have to be that direct.  Any time you suffer anything while serving Christ, you suffer that thing on Christ’s behalf.  
And so we should honor men like E.  It is rare to find someone willing to serve that way.  Usually, when an opportunity for ministry comes up, what’s the first thing that goes through your head?  (“Is this going to be too much of a commitment?  I don’t want to over-commit myself.”)
There is wisdom in that.  You don’t want to make commitments you can’t keep, and many people in the church would do well to learn to say “no” once in a while.  
But what a refreshing, inspiring thing when someone like E comes along.  Can you imagine trying to recruit someone for this ministry?
Can you imagine in the Philippian bulletin: 
Wanted: someone willing to leave home for an indefinite period of months or years, walk 800 miles to Rome to be a servant to Paul, who is in prison.  Must be willing to face the hazards of travel, must be willing to labor alongside Paul, and must be willing to take on all Paul’s enemies.  If you are interested, please indicate on your response card…”
Talk about a commitment!
Most of the people probably responded like you and I would, but E stood up and said, “I’ll do that.”  That takes a humble, selfless person.
When we encounter men and women like that we are to honor them.  
Giving
What service was he rendering to God?  We know it was significant.  It is  referred to twice by a word that means priestly service.  It was worth the Philippians loosing a key member over.  It was obviously a great value in Paul’s eyes.
What was it?  Was he a great preacher or evangelist?  Was he going around planting churches?  Did he write a definitive work on some great subject?
Not only was his ministry of extraordinarily high value in the sight of the Philippian church and of extraordinarily high value in the sight of Paul, but it was very important to E himself.  He put his own life at risk for it – you don’t do that for just anything. 
Maybe you highly value your role at Creekside, but would you die for it?  You may be very committed to working in the nursery, but if doing that placed you in a position where you would almost certainly die if you kept on with it, would you continue?
So what was it that was such a high calling?
The passage doesn’t tell us.  We could guess, or we could try to figure it out.  Or we could just go to ch.4 and find out for sure:
Php.4:15-19  Moreover, as you Philippians know, in the early days of your acquaintance with the gospel, when I set out from Macedonia, not one church shared with me in the matter of giving and receiving, except you only; 16for even when I was in Thessalonica, you sent me aid again and again when I was in need. 17 Not that I am looking for a gift, but I am looking for what may be credited to your account. 18 I have received full payment and even more; I am amply supplied, now that I have received from Epaphroditus the gifts you sent. They are a fragrant offering, an acceptable sacrifice, pleasing to God. 19 And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus. 
They had been support Paul financially, and Epaphroditus’ task was simply to bring the money.
That was what was such a big deal – giving an offering?  No, not giving an offering.  Just delivering an offering that someone else gave.
Why is that such a big deal?
Because the offering itself was a fragrant offering, an acceptable sacrifice, pleasing to God.
Evidently this particular offering was given with the right motives and was a sacrificial gift.  
We don’t know how much it was, but certainly it would have been substantial.  They aren’t going to send someone on an 800 mile journey in life-threatening conditions to deliver $20.  It was enough money to where many months later Paul says that he is no longer in need and he is amply supplied.  
Why is it so significant?  Flip back to ch.1
Php.1:4-6 In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy 5 because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now, 6 being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. 
Paul considered their financial support to be a partnership in the Gospel.  So everything Paul did while being supported by the Philippians, the Philippians did.  So on the day of Christ we can expect to see the Philippian church be rewarded for all the things that were accomplished through Paul’s ministry.
The fruit of that ministry will continue until the Day of Christ.  You can’t say that about most churches.  But even though all those people are long dead, the fruit from their giving will continue until the Day of Christ through Paul’s ministry.
There’s no doubt that E did much more than just deliver the money (he also labored and fought alongside Paul, and served Paul), but the gift is what Paul highlights in the book.
I have heard people disparage giving, as if it were a secondary, inferior way to participate.  “It is easy for us to just write a check, rather than go ourselves and help.”  Paul didn’t see it that way – he held the writing of the check in as high a regard as actually going.
You can tell how God wants you to participate in the ministry by what you have been given.  
Have you been given the ability to preach?  If so, you are negligent if you don’t preach.  
Have you been given the ability to sing?  Then you ought to contribute that way.  
Have you been given the ability to earn large amounts of money?  Then it seems obvious that that is the way God has designed you to contribute to the ministry.
Risking His Life
30 risking his life to make up for the help you could not give me.
When Peter thought his life was on the line, he denied Christ.  But the threat of death did not deter E.
risking is a play on E’s name.  E = “favorite of Aphrodite” – the goddess of luck, among other things.  We have records of people back then gambling, and when someone got a lucky roll they would say, “Epaphrotidus!” – Lady Luck is smiling on you.
The verb form of E means to roll the dice.
The word risking is paraboleu,omai to risk or be reckless with one’s life.  Some say it was also used in connection with gambling – for a gambler who would risk everything one a roll of the dice.   
E risked his life.  He exposed himself to such danger, it was like going to Los Vegas and placing his own life on the table and rolling the dice.
In the early church there was a group called the paroboloni who had E as their hero.  They named themselves after this word.  
They ministered to people with infectious diseases.  Went out during the great pestilence of 252 AD cared for the sick and buried the dead bodies of their enemies – bodies which had been left out because of the plague.
They made it their mission to unhesitatingly, unflinchingly, and boldly proclaim the Gospel in any circumstances.
We tend to insulate ourselves to the point that there is no risk.  We won’t do anything unless all the bases are covered ahead of time.  We buy insurance against every conceivable difficulty.  
Some people want to run the church that way – no risks of any kind.  If there is any chance at all of future difficulty, a ministry won’t even be tried.
E took a chance.  He faced a decision in which he could choose option A – and back off of the ministry until he recovered, option B – press forward to accomplish the ministry.
With option B, the odds dictated he would probably die.  But when faced with that he said, “I’ll roll the dice.”
Was he being reckless?  Foolish?
No, it wasn’t foolish or reckless.  This was a form of gambling that is very different than in Las Vegas.  You see, this is a very rare form of gambling known as “sure thing gambling.”  Guaranteed a 100 to 1 payoff every time you play.
Mk 10:28-31  Peter said to him, "We have left everything to follow you!" Mt.19:27 What then will there be for us?" (What’s the payoff?) 29"I tell you the truth," Jesus replied, "no one who has left home or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or fields for me and the gospel 30will fail to receive a hundred times as much in this present age (homes, brothers, sisters, mothers, children and fields-and with them, persecutions) and in the age to come, eternal life. 
So whatever you risk, you are guaranteed to receive 100 times that plus eternal life thrown in as a bonus – just for playing.
Conclusion
This is quite a scene.  There are 3 parties (4 with Tim), each facing great suffering, but we hear no complaining.  No one is doing what is in their own best interests.  
Paul is sending away his dear friend and faithful worker, 
E goes where he is needed at the expense of his own life, 
the Philippians send their beloved E to Paul.  Everyone is suffering, but no one is taking care of their own interests.
This is how God designed the body of Christ to function.  It is beautiful, isn’t it?
Think of someone you deeply love in the Lord, and pursue those traits.
If you have been in the habit of thinking of the Bible as a rule book or a theological textbook, or a book of religious regulations, looking into today’s passage should awaken us to the fact that the Bible is a book of very personal communications between real people in real life situations.  
In this little paragraph we see the struggles of travel, deep friendship, a personal love that is moving, sickness, death of a loved one, sacrificial giving, sorrow, joy, anxiety, etc.  It is a thoroughly human account.
It is a reminder that in most cases, even for Bible characters, God did not normally intervene supernaturally or miraculously in day to day events.
This whole problem could have been avoided if God would have just immediately healed E, or not let him get sick in the first place.  Or if God would have supernaturally revealed to the church in Philippi that E had recovered.  He didn’t.
I’m sure to Paul and E it must have been hard to understand why the Lord didn’t – after all, they were doing what God called them to do.  The ministry was so important – why would God allow it to be so hindered?
But we can see why.  E had an opportunity to give God the highest honor, and that great act served as an example and inspiration to others.  
Paul had the opportunity to demonstrate self-sacrificial love.  
The Philippians received back their beloved E.  
E received the intense desire and longing of his heart.  In the end E was rejoicing, the Philippians were rejoicing, Paul was rejoicing and God was honored in all of it.
When God send painful difficulties in your life – even sickness or death, or a major hindrance to a ministry… Instead of sitting around saying, “Maybe God is trying to tell me something…” perhaps we should say, “Maybe God is giving me an opportunity to live out faithfulness, and to glorify Him in my response.”